Co-parenting, minus the friction
Two homes. One calm source of truth.
Both Homes keeps the custody schedule, the hand-offs, and the hard conversations in one shared, private place — and quietly filters the tone out of every message before it sends. Free to start; your co-parent joins with their own login.
Say what you need to. Send what you should.
Type honestly. Before anything sends, Both Homes shows you a neutral, businesslike version side by side. You always choose which one goes.
What you typed: “You’re ALWAYS late and it’s so disrespectful — can you PLEASE just show up on time for once??”
What Both Homes suggests: “Please plan to arrive at 5:00 for pickup going forward. Let me know if that time doesn’t work and we can adjust.”
What Both Homes does
- A schedule that computes itself. Pick 2-2-3, week-on / week-off, 2-2-5-5, or alternating; the calendar fills in who has the kids every day. Swap any single day when life happens.
- Responsibilities, split clearly. Forms, co-pays, cleats, doctor calls — assign each one with a due date, and both homes see what’s handled.
- A tone filter on every message. Heated drafts get rewritten calm before they send; you choose which version goes.
- Built for exactly two. A quiet, private space shared only between the two of you — no feeds, no audiences.
Set up in a couple of minutes
- Create your household — add your kids and choose your custody rotation and start date.
- Invite your co-parent — they sign in with their own login and claim the second seat.
- Coordinate, calmly — share the schedule, split the tasks, and message without the heat.
Questions parents ask
What is Both Homes?
A calm, private app for two separated or divorced parents to coordinate their kids — a shared custody schedule that computes itself, responsibilities split across both homes, and a tone filter that neutralizes every message before it sends.
Is it private?
Only the two parents in a household can see its schedule, responsibilities, and messages. No feeds, no other audiences — a space shared between exactly the two of you.
Can I use it if my co-parent hasn’t signed up?
Yes — one parent creates the household, and the second claims their seat with their own login whenever they’re ready.
How much does it cost?
Free to start — set up your household, share the schedule, split responsibilities, and message with the tone filter.
Both Homes · a private space shared only between the two parents.